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The need to be loved is especially common
in all human beings, it starts when a baby born and till he
Some children as they grew up they
do not talk more with others, and do not love to go anywhere, did you ever
found the reason of it or always saying this he/she is moody he don’t like
this, Actually this condition can also be the protection issue, may be the
child being abuse by anyone, and depressed /embraced so don’t want to go
anywhere
Child Need Love with Care:
The need to be loved is especially common
in all human beings, it starts when a baby born and till he
is in this world,
human wants be love those who are around them, they want be care of all to whom
they pass their single minute, so to be love is natural concept which is extremely
common, Life is nothing without care and love, many people finish their lives
just for not getting love and care they expect from their loved peoples. Therefore
Love is Care is well important element of Life,
Here is question from all parents
or older people then eighteen; do you give love with care to your child as much
they want???
If it is, then you all really best
Parent, Lets have discussion that what children want from Parent, and how the
Parent should deal with them, before going to this I would like to tell you
that Who is child, as discussed in my last article, Any person whose is age is
below then 18 years is child, so the loving expectation of your child is much
higher than other human beings,
What do you think about this that
you provide good food, clean and new clothes, good education, are enough for
them? No it is not
In My last article you will come to
know about four basic Child rights, and this question only cover 2 main rights Survival
and Development, although that are also not fully covered, if you provide them
above mentioned things, as these are the things include in their need, what
about their wants?? Some times their wants are related with love and need with
care,
Here are other 2 main rights
Participation and Protection, which we parents mostly overlook for children,
here are some examples,
Choosing school, Clothes, Colors,
food flavors etc decided by Parents, some time children wants to participate or
say something about their own things although we stop them saying this you don’t
know about this so keep quiet,
Some time Children demand for a little
time, where they want to discuss, share their planning, gossip, results etc,
though due to busy schedule Parents ignore them and say for study or you just
know to weste time,
Have you ever think that your child
can have some issues with them which they want discuss with you?
Some children as they grew up they
do not talk more with others, and do not love to go anywhere, did you ever
found the reason of it or always saying this he/she is moody he don’t like
this, Actually this condition can also be the protection issue, may be the
child being abuse by anyone, and depressed /embraced so don’t want to go
anywhereWhat Children Want actually & what Parents should do:
ü Children
want to participate and share their views so they need time, Parents should
listen them in case it’s not important that every time their wants be fulfill although
keeping preference their views with better dealing will be the result of good
understanding between parents and children,
ü Parents
should never make insult to a child, because this can be the cause of the failure
in every stage/ life event
ü Parents
should make a friendship relationship as the child can share each problem and
good things as well, trust is mandatory
ü Speak in soft
words and have smiley face during dealing with children as children first learn
from their parents,
ü Listen and
answer them,
ü Take care
of their feelings
ü Reward and
Special treats (like birthday, day celebration, monthly)
So Children really need special
care and Love, as the result they will be good manager, good dealer and
developed person in this world.
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